Finding help at Our Place after suffering a stroke

Grant McKenzie is director of communications for Our Place.聽

Robert is no stranger to diversity. Life has placed many obstacles in his path, and yet he battles them all with a joke on his lips and a smile on his face. Sitting in his wheelchair in the Our Place dining room, enjoying that day鈥檚 lunch, Robert is quick with a quip: 鈥淭here were times my pants were so thin, I could sit on a dime and tell if it was heads or tails.鈥�

Born in Victoria, Robert had to 鈥済row up fast鈥� when his father was diagnosed with a brain tumour and died within two years. Robert was only 16 at the time. He left high school to take over his father鈥檚 job doing maintenance and custodial work.

Two years later, however, he went back to school and began searching for a career that spoke to him. He earned both his private and commercial pilot鈥檚 licence, but found the money wasn鈥檛 great.

He then earned his welder鈥檚 ticket and worked for several years welding trucks, until the contract ended.

Frustrated, he got his Class 2 driver鈥檚 licence and went to work as a bus driver with Greyhound on routes all over Vancouver Island.

That job lasted 16 years and allowed him to build up a repertoire of groan-inducing jokes that he could share with passengers.

鈥淚 have enough money to last me the rest of my life 鈥� unless I buy something.鈥�

When the bus industry began to shrink, Robert found he had to reinvent himself once again. He worked in Victoria Hospice as a cleaner, and did a two-year stint with Empress Taxi, which he helped rebrand as Yellow Cabs.

But then, at the age of 54, Robert suffered a stroke in the same area of the brain where his father鈥檚 tumour had been located.

The stroke paralyzed his entire left side and put him in a wheelchair.

鈥淲hat do you say to a camouflaged person in a wheelchair? You can hide, but you can鈥檛 run!鈥�

Determined not to let this next obstacle keep him down, Robert polished up his joke book and started physical therapy.

Every day for the last six years, Robert has been working hard to recover, and now his left side is working again.

He still needs the wheelchair, but says: 鈥淚 can walk about 12聽feet before I fall down. If they named a race after me, at least it would be over quick.鈥�

Unable to work, Robert ended up on disability and living in subsidized housing.

鈥淚 have a good view of the Save-On-Foods Memorial Centre,鈥� he quips. 鈥淚 watched Elton John鈥檚 limo drive inside the arena 鈥� he didn鈥檛 wave back.鈥�

Robert never married and has no children 鈥渢hat I know of.鈥�

His disability payments get him through the month, but only with a little help.

鈥淭hat鈥檚 why I come to Our Place,鈥� he says. 鈥淚 like the lunches. I make my own breakfast and supper, but Our Place鈥檚 lunch helps stretch my disability cheque through the week.鈥�

鈥淧lus,鈥� he adds with a sly grin, 鈥渢hey don鈥檛 make me do the dishes.鈥�

But it鈥檚 not just the meals that bring Robert down to 919 Pandora. It鈥檚 also the social aspect.

鈥淚 get to crack a few jokes with people and that makes the day go a little easier. It鈥檚 a social outing. I eat my lunch and then do my chores for the day.鈥�

Robert has now secured some part-time work to supplement his disability income.

鈥淢y career isn鈥檛 over yet,鈥� he says, 鈥渂ut dance instructor might not be in the cards.鈥�

The 乌鸦传媒 Christmas Fund sends donations it collects to Our Place, the Mustard Seed and the Salvation Army, to help people in need during the Christmas season.